When the Bloodline Calls, You Don’t Quit: Robin’s Road Through 10 SSB Attempts

Robin comes from Haryana, a place where discipline and simplicity shape character early. His schooling began in a government school till the 8th standard, after which he moved to an Army School in class 9, an environment that felt familiar. After all, the past three generations of his family had served in the Indian Army. 



For Robin, the uniform wasn’t a dream influenced by social media or movies, it was part of his identity. Yet, legacy alone doesn’t clear SSB. Robin’s first reality check came early. He appeared twice for NDA but couldn’t clear the written exam. His first SSB attempt came through the TES entry, where he reached the conference stage, only to be screened out there.

Like many aspirants, he told himself, “Next time will be better.” After completing his B.Tech from a private college in Bangalore, Robin gave three CDS (IMA) attempts. The first ended at document verification, and the next two at conference. Three AFCAT attempts followed, with the same outcome. Each time, he came close. Each time, something was missing. By the time Robin reached his 9th attempt, he wasn’t inexperienced, he was a classic repeater.

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“Some journeys don’t begin with success. They begin with resilience.”

The Confusion of “Doing Everything Right”

With every attempt, Robin could feel his interview and GTO performance improving. He was more confident, more aware, and more articulate. Yet, the recommendation still didn’t come.

The biggest question troubling him was:
“If everything is going well, what is going wrong?”

Like many aspirants, Robin had attended multiple coachings. One common advice he received was—“Just write any story, relate it to the picture.” That approach helped him get through attempts, but it never helped him understand why he wasn’t making it through.

Psychological tests quietly became the biggest hurdle—one he couldn’t decode on his own.

A Shift Towards Clarity

It was during this phase that a friend suggested Road to Recommendation (R2R)—not as another coaching, but as a place to gain clarity.

Robin decided to give it a try.

Most of his interaction was with Shashank Sir, who quickly identified a common repeater’s problem—over-structuring, overthinking, and losing the natural self in the process. Instead of teaching “templates,” Robin was guided to look inward.

He was taught something surprisingly simple:

  • Your life itself is your best content for psych tests
  • Your achievements, struggles, relationships, and everyday actions already reflect who you are
  • Stories become powerful when they carry real emotions and genuine intent

Robin slowly learned how to extract major life themes, how different people around him influenced his actions, and how simplicity made his responses more authentic.

When Preparation Meets Recognition

In his next SSB attempts, something interesting happened—7 pictures came from the same sets he had practiced during R2R sessions. But more importantly, he didn’t panic or force answers. He understood what the task was actually asking. In his 10th attempt (SSC Tech 64), Robin finally got recommended—though he was medically out. Many would have broken there. Robin didn’t. He stayed focused, stayed calm, and appeared again. In SSC Tech 65, Robin got recommended once more. This time, it was complete.

The Mindset That Made the Difference

Robin never obsessed over results. He believed that while results matter, thinking about them during preparation only creates pressure. His focus remained on doing each task sincerely and to the best of his ability—something that consistently worked in his favour.

Robin’s Message to SSB Aspirants

“Keep things simple. Relate everything to your personal life.” Robin feels that over time, as aspirants move from one academy to another, they unknowingly lose their natural self. R2R helped him rediscover that authenticity. Once he understood what each SSB task was actually evaluating, the process no longer felt complicated or intimidating. SSB, according to him, becomes simple and clear when you stop pretending and start presenting your real self. And sometimes, that clarity is all it takes to turn attempts into a recommendation.

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Prachi Parmar
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