One Realisation Between Two Attempts That Took Jayant to Recommendation





For most SSB aspirants, the journey doesn’t begin with confidence—it begins with questions.
What are they really looking for?
Why did I get screened out?
Am I even preparing the right way? Jayant’s story is one that many aspirants will instantly relate to.

24-12-2025

"The hardest part of getting screened out is not knowing what went wrong.”

A Spark That Started in NCC

Hailing from Karnataka, Jayant later moved to Bangalore to pursue his graduation and is currently completing his MBA. Like many young aspirants, his first real exposure to the Armed Forces came through NCC. The discipline, the uniform, and the environment sparked a deeper curiosity, could this be more than just an experience?

That curiosity soon turned into a serious attempt at the SSB.

The First Attempt: When Answers Were Missing

Jayant appeared for his first SSB as a fresher. He was motivated, sincere, and hopeful, but he was screened out.

What hurt more than the screen out was the lack of clarity.
He didn’t know:

  • What exactly went wrong
  • How tasks were evaluated
  • How to improve or even practice properly

Like many aspirants, he realised that motivation alone isn’t enough when preparation lacks direction.

Choosing Clarity Over Guesswork

Instead of giving up or blindly attempting again, Jayant decided to fix the biggest gap in his preparation : clarity. He joined R2R, not to “change himself,” but to understand:

  • How SSB tasks actually work
  • How to prepare without memorising answers
  • How to present his real personality confidently

This shift made all the difference.

The Second Attempt: Being Real Worked

In his second attempt, Jayant appeared for NCC Special Entry (IAF) at 4 AFSB Varanasi and this time, he got recommended.

According to Jayant, the biggest change wasn’t dramatic.
It was simple, yet powerful:

  • He knew how to be himself
  • He wrote stories naturally, not mechanically
  • He learned how to reflect real-life experiences across different SSB tasks
  • He stopped trying to impress and started expressing honestly

That clarity helped him stay calm, confident, and consistent across all stages of the SSB.

A Message Every Aspirant Needs to Hear

Jayant sums up his journey in one line that resonates deeply with every SSB aspirant:

“Bas lage rehna hai, zarur hoga.”

Sometimes, success at SSB isn’t about doing something extraordinary, it’s about doing the basics right, repeatedly, with the right guidance.

Final Thoughts

Jayant’s journey is a reminder that:

  • Screening out doesn’t define your potential
  • Lack of clarity can be fixed
  • The right environment helps you discover, not manufacture your officer-like qualities

For aspirants who feel stuck, confused, or unsure after an attempt, his story quietly answers an important question:
What changes when preparation finally makes sense?

And sometimes, that clarity is the first real step toward a recommendation.

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Prachi Parmar
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